In Memoriam Rizalino R. Cuenca (1957-2009)

The day after my last post before this, my father passed away. Need I say more? Until now, sadness is a constant companion. Remembering happy memories shared with my Papa. I always picture in my mind the last moments we were together. The last time I held his hands, kissed his forehead and the last time I looked at him.

It's been more than a month now. Life, as well as our wedding preps still go on. Much like life, it does go on, but our wedding preps changed so much.

Firstly, we had to change our wedding date. From Dec 8, 2009 to Mar 8, 2010. It was not an easy decision. But believe me, it had to be done.

Secondly, from the grand and fabulous wedding, we have to redirect our plans to a simple, yet lovingly prepared wedding. Given the situation, I don't have the heart to have a grand and fabulous wedding.

Now, I realize that it's not how grand the wedding is. It's the fact that it's a union of two people who love each other and who will stand beside each other through thick and thin. It's my Papa's wedding gift. He made me realize what's important in a wedding. It's the marrriage.

Papa wherever you are, we miss you so much. I thank you for everything. Don't feel sad that you're not able to go to my wedding. You are always with us in our hearts. We love you.